My newborn picture, John Quincy’s, and Johns.  I definitely think he takes after his father.


Thanks Obamacare!

So starting in 2013, any new mama can get a ‘free’ breast pump from their insurance company thanks to Obamacare.  yippee.  Here’s another lesson in unintended consequences for ya…

First, the rationale for the free pumps: Good breastpumps run at least $200 so this seemed like a great way to encourage women to breastfeed their children.  Once you get pas that initial cost, breastfeeding is way cheaper.  Considering that a year’s worth of formula can easily run you $1,000, helping poor women breastfeed is a great way to help ease their economic burden as well as to help them grow healthy munchkins thus cutting healthcare costs for the taxpayer.

Now the rub: I researched my options and selected a Medela breast pump from the choices my insurance company gave me.  Well due to Obamacare, it’s backordered until kingdom come and I was forced to rent a pump from my pediatricians office because the first six weeks are crucial for establishing milk supply.  Keep in mind not everyone can afford to rent the pump. I had to front the cost with the hope of my insurance company reimbursing me (it is not clear yet if they will).  NOW I found out from a nurse at Virginia Hospital Center that these ‘free’ pumps suck at sucking!  Basically the companies are getting a flat Obamacare mandated fee from the insurance companies so they created cheaper knockoffs of their consumer marketed pumps.

Yet another lovely example of a government mandate creating a shortage of crappy products.


What working from home looks like before the nanny shows up.  I have about 45 minutes to an hour before Quincy melts down…just enough time to drink my coffee, clear my inbox, and set priorities for the day.  Then I’m juggling mollifying the munchkin and continuing to work.


QT time w Q

QT time w Q


My QT, John Quincy Athayde!  Born yesterday at home at 11:32am after 18 hrs of labor

My QT, John Quincy Athayde! Born yesterday at home at 11:32am after 18 hrs of labor


Watershed moments

My mind has just been blown.  I made a watershed decision in early 2007 and haven’t since given it much thought.  Baylor University offered me a full ride for their doctorate in Political Philosophy program.  I turned it down.  

How different my life could have been!

Looking back at my 24 year old self, I’m thinking she was a little spoiled and arrogant to reject such an offer, but I’m pretty darn happy with my life right now so c’est la vie!


Me and baby a chillin listening to @boboroshi jam

Me and baby a chillin listening to @boboroshi jam


Listening to one of the openers for Mumford this Wednesday while churning through my to-do list #goodday #gettingexcited!



Hey kid, mama is kinda over the lopsided belly thing…why don’t you use some of the real estate on the other side of the belly? (Pic was taken centered over my chest - I stuck my feet out for a reference point as well)

Hey kid, mama is kinda over the lopsided belly thing…why don’t you use some of the real estate on the other side of the belly? (Pic was taken centered over my chest - I stuck my feet out for a reference point as well)


Oh Martha

Narrowly escaped spending an egregious amount of money on the Martha Stewart home office collection at Staples but then I realized I already had a similar organization system at home that i had jerryrigged. The difference? the pretty robins egg blue colored binder and folders.